B.F.F?

i'm sure each and everyone of u had met someone, and be able to click well.(and that someone may be of the same sex or opposite sex la) and it seems that both of u can talk about almost everything, be it mere gossips or heart-to-heart talk about problems etc.etc.and then u "marked" that that person is ur b.f.f. thinking that nothing beats this friendship etc.etc.

what had i learnt throughout these years as being someone's friend?
i) Just because u click well with someone in the begining, doesn't mean that "chemistry" will last long.(im not trying to sound lesbian by using "chemistry" but i don't know other suitable word to substitute it, yeah..i have a limited vocab)

ii) Just because that person is not really your type of friend, doesn't mean she/he's not a loyal friend and someone that u can count on.

iii) It takes more than just a few weeks to really get to know and understand someone. but hell, u might know someone for 10 years, but u may not necessarily know everything about that particular person if that person intends to hide her/his true colours.


so like i say, it takes time to get to know someone. u may think that she's ur b.f.f then like after 2 years of friendship or maybe more, u realised something is not right. something about that person made u uneasy. made u uncomfortable. u just dislike that part of that person.

but then, what can u do? totally ignore her and said let's break this friendship up? well, that will be totally immature as this particular friendship doesnt just belong to u and her, it involves friends surrounding both of u.

so..what's then left for u? u're stuck in the middle. maybe u can try avoiding her, but it seems like an immature thing to do, since all of u belong in a group...it's impossible to do so.

and occasionally, u bitch about it with ur other b.f.f. yea, it seems like a totally bitchy and unethical thing to do, but what else can u do to remain sane about the whole situation? u know, talking does heals. lol.

if u have a better alternative...then holler!

:)