May Nee's 21st.

well this year, we went ikopi to celebrate nee's birthday. *sigh* this is the 2nd time we went somewhere near college to celebrate, and in quite a short time. because May is when all of us are going to have our finals soon. well, i guess no matter where we celebrate, the only thing that counts is our intention and sincerity right?

well, since this time there were more of us, the staff asked us whether we want to have a room by ourselves. the room is quite spacious, and there was this collection of coffee cans.this is my 1st time seeing this type of collection, i mean..usually u see ppl collect coca-cola can instead right...

a whole rack of coffee cans.

and this time i ordered affagato. it's pretty good, but i still prefer their ice coffee float.

Affagato - Italian Coffee

me and may nee - the birthday girl

the birthday cake - Boston Chocolate Cake.

pretty nee !

all of us.well, actually fufu was not invited..... *laughs*

all of us *sigh* it's been a long long time since all 6 of us had a picture together. really miss those time in our Inter years.

Happy 21st Birthday; Dear Nee !

When Stress Struck Me.

last thursday; once i reached home;all i can feel is tiredness & stress. NTH else. my mind was filled with "i need to read this article, i need to read that book, i need to finish up my tuition notes.i need to...i need to..." then while i was online, a friend asked me whether want to go yam cha or not.THAT'S IT! screw the bloody books.i need some break.i gotta CHILL.so i rang up another friend.so set, around 11pm we will go.so i manage to sleep around an hour then we head to starbucks, the curve.

it's great to have friends that can bring u out to chill when u're so stressed up! even though i was so bloody tired, after some crapping & caffeine with them, i manage to boost up my energy level and continue to study once i reached home.

STRESS written all over my face.

Starbucks + Companions = cures ME.

Top 10 Reasons Why I Hate KTM.

10. The station is so bloody far from my college.

9. The KTM is always LATE.

8.There will be so many FOREIGN workers taking the train, especially on Sunday. I feel like a minority in the train

7. Weirdos approaching you, trying to make friend.

6. The air-cond always break down. Can you imagine yourself cram in the bloody KTM especially after working hours?You're smush in like sardine, not to mention your face are practically kissing some smelly man's armpit the least you expect is some air cond.

5.How some people don't move into the middle part where there were so MANY people trying to go in, though there are still so many space in the middle.

4. How some people are just such a "seat-hoggers" put your bloody bag on the floor lar! you think your bag is more precious than my arse issit ?

3. Heavy breathers.Especially when the train is packed, GOSH! I can almost smell your lunch !

2. Youths that don't offer their seats to pregnant lady, disabled citizens or senior citizens.

1. Basically all this just proves how UNCIVILIZED our mentality is.

A Place for Coffee Lovers.

well, if you are a coffee lover, i would highly recommend you a place called ikopi. although it's not as famous as starbucks, coffee bean or san francisco coffee, ikopi has its specialty and uniqueness of its own. ikopi located at No. 6, 1st Floor Jln Panggong, 50000 K.L. it's located very near petaling street.

why i said it has its own uniqueness? well, compared with other coffee house, ikopi has a better atmosphere, for you to just sit down to have a peaceful evening and to chill by yourself or with a companion.unlike other coffee house where there were many ppl having their own chatting session, it will end up being very noisy.so...there goes your peaceful time to enjoy a good cup of coffee.


ikopi also has a very special type of decorations. there were displays of various types of:

the staff said that initially this kind of cups are meant for coffee; not tea.hmmm...

coffee pots

coffee drip. (they used cold, NOT hot water!)

espresso machines

and an old style coffee maker!




my favourite drink from ikopi is their ice coffee float.yea, i know it sounds...NORMAL. but the way they make it is really different.one thing that really amazed me that even their ice cubes are made of coffee! in other words, they will freeze the coffee 1st.i think the main purpose of this is so that the taste of the coffee will not be less tasteful even if the ice melts.

that's me.enjoying my ice coffee float.

to learn more about ikopi, just check out : ikopi-kl.blogspot.com

Good Girl.

today, is my daddy's birthday.he will turn 55 today.i started searching for his present since last week.when i found the perfect shirt, the sales person said, no more size.i was so fed up, since me and wendy edi walk the whole isetan department already.and i really don't know what else to get my daddy.then just yesterday, my mom just said, don't need to buy anything.just be a good girl etc etc.

so today, my whole family went Jack's Place for dinner.then when my sis gave my dad present that time, i told my daddy.

me: "daddy ar; this year no present from me...but i'll be a good girl"

daddy: " *Laughs* so long u be a good girl, study hard.and save me another rm1000 for your fees next year"

me: *stoned for a few seconds*

*sigh* to save my dad another rm1000 for my fees the following year, means that i need to score the same marks or even higher than i did for my last year's finals exam. but this year is so hard.taking those core subjects are driving me nuts.ya, i know last year when i was facing my exam that time, i will also said it's difficult etc etc. but this year is really different.

i know daddy is expecting quite high from me.

what can i do? i guess all i can do now is taking it as another motivation for me to study; to push myself even further. to give daddy his 55th birthday present.

Blogging = Therapeutic?

*sigh* here i am, blogging again when i should be in my room,diligently reading and going thru my evidence notes.it's my 2nd last week of revision already.exams starting in about a month's time.yet i cant seem to focus on evidence.last sunday, when we had our revision, our lecturer was actually mocking students who blog.

he said sth like "you think after blogging you feel better is it?what is the point of blogging. *smirk*x3 you think blogging have therapeutic effect is it?i tell you what, go home and write assignments, that will have therapeutic effect on you, especially when september comes.(that is when our results will be out) etc etc" when he said that that time, i looked at wendy and said SHIT.bloody hellll....he's mocking us bloggers! argghh..!

here i am, blogging instead of writing assignments or reading or studying or anything that can help me in May. i dont think that blogging had any therapeutic effect on me, but it just helps me to vent in my frustration or happiness when i cant find anyone to talk to...especially if it's 4am in the morning.

so what about u?does blogging had a therapeutic effect on you?

l.o.v.e.

finally it's sunday night.for many ppl, sunday night would be a drag, since the very next day is monday.need to get their ass up for work or college after a long weekend.BUT for me?my weekend starts on sunday night.thanks to my college's timetable.well, after a long friday of teaching ungrateful ppl;celebrating friends' birthday at night;then study later(ya;my nerdiness is showing).had barely 4 hours of sleep i need to get my ass up for class on saturday.2pm-9pm.reached home; online then continue my nerdiness.slept at 5.30am;then woke up at 8.45am this morning for class again:10-5.30pm.

ugh...finally, after having a long dinner with my family, i reached home at 9pm.bathe.then online.was chatting with alex;chilling before i hit my bed.ya, i know it's only 10pm; but all i need is sleep! THEN; alex, being him..suddenly asked me wht wan go yamcha.then i thought, he was just joking.so i said no lar.siao mehh..and said i wan to snore soon edi.then about 2 minutes later, he said he's going hartamas.asking me again wht i wan to go or not.then i consider for a whole 2 minute.thinking;since im going to sleep anyway, why not just go out;have some fresh air (tsk.tsk) and a good chat with him? (well, ofcos there are nie and another fella which i'l get into later) so..i said..fine.so i went up changed.and got into his car. he said he had another friend coming too, someone i dont know name richard.i asked nie to joined us, but she said she's outside.

when i reached hartamas, i called nie again, persuading her to come.cos at 1st i feel weird, since i barely knew this richard fella.

finally, when nie reached....then...realised that the 3 of them had sth in common (long story)

listening to their stories;made me feel that;sometimes human can be so cruel.i mean, God gave us love.for us to be able to love others and to be loved.BUT;because of this gift...there are some ppl that can be the happiest man/woman on earth, yet the very next day;because of love.turns them into the complete opposite.

so what can i say about this?all i can say is...enjoy your youth so long you still have it! (no offense to those lovers that are reading this ya) cheers to all singles out there (double cheers to the ppl i just hang out with just now)

well, now im glad i decided to go out.i dont feel so tired anymore, i can continue being a nerd. and i get to know someone new!

a few hours ago, i was quite down.i realised how easily i allow myself to be taken advantaged of, especially by ppl that im not that close with.i guess i've some problems in saying "No" sometimes.unhappy incidents fall on me in just a few hours time.i was feeling down.thinking, why?why cant i just say NO in the 1st place?

i was really upset, and i decided to msg a very good fren of mine.and in just a few seconds my phone rings.i poured our everything.surprisingly he was able to solve half of my problems!i mean, he made it sounds so easy, and i wonder why i cant figure it out.it made me laughed out loud.

all i want to say is, no matter how bad your problems may be, or how upset you are, when you feel that the world is against you; all you have to do...is give your friend a call.she or he may not be able to solve your problem, but just the sound of a comforting voice - you know that there are someone in this world will always be there for you and care for you.that is what friends are for.


"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."

22nd & 21st.

today we were suppose to celebrate chin's 22nd and chyau's 21st birthday. all our transports were arranged before hand, suppose to leave at around 7pm.unfortunately there were massive jam around bukit bintang area, so hong is unable to come back to kepong to fetch me and angel and chyau.so, plan changed, angel will fetch chyau while li will come pick me up.that time was about 8pm already.then alex called,said he's joining us afterall..so he'l pick me up.then that time, nie just reached 1U from genting, so..rather than her taking the LRT there alone, we decided to pick her up as well.so...we waited for her at her house.


finally about 8.30pm, we pick her up..then...heading towards kl...THEN...suddenly we heard some WEIRD sound from alex's car's engine.. "kronnggg..kroonngg" checked the engine...SHIIT...his car's aircond belt..is about to PUTUS edi...SO..end up going back to kepong, changed car. then oni continue our journey to klcc.that time is going to be 10pm already. so...the 3 of us decided that it's quite pointless to go to KLCC, since the kitchen will be close soon, so...we went straight to Pavillion to meet up with them later.

after looking around, we settle down at a restaurant called : ANTHENA. this place looks pretty cool, with blue lights.and it's not as packed as other place....after we took our order...we just sat there and stone.
me.cam-whoring. *laughs*
alex:refused to let me take his pic.
nie...with her new look. *lengluiii*
just some random pic while waiting for our pasta.

well, though the place looks nice..but..their staffs are a bit incompetent, only the higher rank staff seems to know how to serve customer.both me and nie ordered their chicken pasta....it's so not worth it.it's rm26, when i see the price, i think it's quite OK, BUT...the food...wah sehh..damm SALTY !

finally about 11 plus, the others reached. well, there are other ppl that joined us today, ppl that i dont usually hang out with, as they are chyau's buddies. basically, there were me, nie, alex, li, yan, chin, hong, chyau, angel, soonguan, chunshyan,kaihong and waikit.

angel made cheese cake for chyau..and it's in HEART SHAPE!!! jealous-NYA!!! *sighhh*

my bestie..chin..she's going to be 22 already...time really flies man...

all of us.



finally..about 12.30am...everyone is tired..since hong n chyau just back from work, and me nie and alex in the mood for another yam-cha session, so we head back to sri sinar for mamak. (actually it's alex that's in the mood lar.hehee) then the 3 of us there...kind of "keng sam xi" well, only both of them lar.. *heheheee*

we sat there for a while...then about 1.30am...we start to feel raindrops on our face...so..guess it's time to ciao.

*sighh* really miss those yam-cha session with my buddies, i barely see them now..thanks no my stupid final exam..that is just AROUND THE CORNER! arrgghh !

SMIRK.

well, i started yoga about half a year ago, and usually i went with my sis and her bf at Camp5 in 1U.Camp5 is meant for rock climbing, but apart from it, there are yoga classes every saturday. there are some regulars there that i can see every sat. 1st is this malay man that was there, he usually rock climbs too, he is good in yoga too.sis said it's because he's strong edi, so he had the arm strength to do those yoga pose.then there is this cute petite girl, who is good in yoga too.and another pretty girl.well, the 2nd pretty girl is very good in yoga, she's very flexible.

BUT, for the past 6 months we were there, she never talk or smile at us.i mean, to me it's normal, since we dont know each other, n just bcos we are in the same yoga class doesnt mean we need to talk to each other.but in other words, this girl is quite lan si lar. so i'll call her the lan si girl.

about 3 weeks ago, my sis went yoga with my mom; without her bf, and of cos without me since im havin class every saturday now. my sis later told me that this lan si girl was very friendly to them that day.reason being..? because sis and mom communicate with each other in english..while sis n her bf speaks in mandarin. aih..c'mon...this is a typical chinese english-educated mentality. or she's a singaporean? either one lar. it's really stupid.

well, yesterday, lan si girl was all-friendly, talking to my mom about yoga. i was there as well. then...

mom: so when u started doin yoga?
lan si girl: ohh..since i was 14...but i only did it for a year
mom: oh ! then u must be very good then..
lan si girl: not really...i stopped after doing it for a year. but i continued once i started university, studying
law
jade's mind : *smirk* SO?

mom: no reaction.

basically, i think she thinks it's impressive cos she's studying law, and thinking of impressing both me and my mom. thank God my mom is numb to those kinda stuff, and didnt give any big reaction.
*smirk* some ppl are just such a show-off freak.

then later during dinner, my mom asked me, if she's studying law, then why is she working in the proshop?selling rock climbing accessories. *smirk* x3

Erm...

i bought this keychain (above) 3 years ago when i was in Japan. i love this keychain when i bought, but ofcourse after 3 years, naturally, the colours came off and there were smudges.

just few days back, my sis's bf just came back from Japan and he bought back a souvenir for me. AND...guess what...







OMG!! it's exactly the SAME! just that the it's new....
so now, i have two exact same keychains..well..maybe it's not exactly the same anymore...

Why?

it's now 4.16 in the morning. while i was reading my subject guide, i realised that i need to search for an article for this area of law.so it explains why im now online. when i was reading textbook, articles...now i know how messed up some ares of laws in UK (well, that shows that they are not that great anyway) im just so frustrated now; why are there so many UNsolved areas? UK Parliament attempt to reform the law by initiating a new Act of Parliament, yet there are still defects in the so-called reform.now my mind is fraught with questions: especially WHY?! there are answers and opinions by academicians..but some are conflicting each other! i know that law is like this, it's all about arguing ur point out.BUT, almost always, WHY will still fill my mind. yet i cant seem to find the answers.

How do you draw the line?

How do you draw the line?
Between being a nice person
And being used by people?
Sometimes;
you just want to help others
cause u felt that it was the right thing to do
But, what happens
when u realised
that others were taking advantage of u?
How far should i go then?
I hate saying no to others.
Yet i dont want to be taken advantage of.

Sometimes, i asked myself,
wouldn't it be better,
if im just a bad person?

BAR-celona

yesterday night, me, my sis n tammy went clubbing at barcelona. this is my 1st time clubbing there. well, that club is quite big..although the atmosphere inside there were not really what i expected.initially, i thought it will have some spanish style in it...but when we were inside, i saw some lanterns type of chandelier hanging...*hmmm* from 9-12, it was r&b and hiphop, my all time fav.BUT, after 12..they change to house music.at 1st i thought it was techno, but i dun really know the difference, how i end up know it was house instead was another story.(just cont reading)
tammy, me, lingwei
the deejay.
us posing as usual.
chandeliers hanging near the sink. the washroom looks cool, but it stinks like hell and we need to share with guys as well *yUck*
anyway, about 2.30pm we decided to leave, so the 3 of us walk back to our car..then my sister realised...that she lost the car key.OH.MY.GOD. at that time, i really dunno what to say or how to react.maybe that time i was a bit drunk, so i cant really think of the consequence.but i know my sis was freaking out edi. then i remembered, when we were at the dance floor, i saw someone passing some sort of carkeys to the DJ.then we drove back to the club with tammy to check with the DJ. then we went back to the club, towards the DJ stand there, then thank God, it was our keys! BUT, the DJ wants to verify to make sure it was our keys, just in case we were defrauding him. he actually asked us to go up to the DJ stand there, to "interview" my sis.so i just follow up.i was sooo tempted to take pics, but end up not doing. finally, the DJ asked us to bring him to our car, the keys are still with him.that time we were a bit freaked out, cos who know what he'll do to us.then i said, better have tammy to drive us back.safer, cos got more of us.then the DJ asked us "you dont trust me issit?why u think im going to rape u issit?" then we answered.."well, we DONT really know u as well..." i think when he knew we were bringing another friend with us, i think he was freaked out lar..mayb scared we might rompak him or sth. then he asked another bouncer guy to accompany him...then my sis asked him.."y, u scared we rape u issit?" the whole situation was damm funny lar. FINALLY we reached our car....the DJ seems surprise to see our car.well, he thought our car was mitsubishi (i dunno wht the spelling is right or not) EVO from the carkeys, well our car is mitsubishi as well, just that it's an older model, it's super gallant. then the bouncer guy insisted that we fetched them back to the club.then we agreed. when they were sitting behind, i insist of taking a pic..then the funniest thing is, he asked me, "can i pose?" *laughssssss*
DJ Jeff and the bouncer guy.

anyways, when we were all in the car, sth struck my mind. y he asked so many questions, then only allowed us to get the keys back? then i asked him, "HEY, u thought the car was EVO, so that was why u dun believe that the car belongs to us, girls lar? you sexist fella!" then he looks sheepish...then i know my assumption is correct....so shiittt....this sexist DJ...but he's a very funny person, and cute too.he was the one that told me that music was house, not techno *embarrassed* hehee

ofcourse, i later took photo with him
after the whole drama...we finally leave sunway at about 3.30am....

Missed Chance.

Me & Professor James Penner. The author of my Law of Trust textbook, the chief examiner for our Trust paper. and he only comes to Malaysia like, once a year. *sigh* Almost everyone rush to get his signature on their textbook after his lecture, and me?stupidly left my textbook at home.