Where are we left?

i know that it's normal for girls to date men that are much older than them, let's say about 8-20 years gap.i know it's not a new thing as this happens way back since my mom's era. i can understand why girls in their early 20s are attracted in older men. i really do.lately however, people close to me or a friend's friend seem to be dating older men. i mean...it's not a shocking news, but the fact that it's happening within friends who are in close vicinity with me made it even more real.

when i say i understand such attraction is because i found myself sometimes also attracted to elder men. somehow men in their mid-30s now are more reliable.they are no longer flighty nor they only think about sex when they see ladies.they are financially stable and are able to think more rationaly. they use their brain to think, rather than "go with the flow".gone were the days where they only hang out in clubs/pubs/sports bar and doing the "guy thing".

all of those traits are what girls generally look for in a relationship.we need stability and reliability. but of course that doesn't mean that we wanted a dull relationship.

men in their mid-30s had most likely gone through some relationships, whether good or bad, this help to shape them hence they are able to understand us girls better. by them understanding our needs, they know how to pleased us and fulfil our needs and wants.

despite all those advantages, i can't help thinking that there is this one major drawback. since the age gap is quite huge, girls in their early 20s would seem to be skipping out part of their youth. thriving to match their other half, they tried to act,think,dressed up more maturely. forwarding the years that should be enjoyed with the proper pace.

it's NOT that i've anything against such relationships...(so friends reading this, i'm totally OK with your relationship) since i myself understood such attraction (though i've never experience such relationships)...it's just my thoughts. thinking, does only girls have such problems? whilst most guys our age are just way too unreliable yet there are drawbacks with elder men.... then, where are we left now?

V - Promo Tour in Sg Wang (28th June 2009)

V's Promo Tour started on the 28th June 2009 in Sg Wang. Me and my buddies - li, chin, yoong, meiyan and many other ex-band members went to support V.



This time, they gave us 3 stunning performance. Their songs titled Show Me Your Love, 魔蝶座 and 暴风雪 are AWESOME. Even for someone who can't read chinese or only understand simple chinese (like me!) would enjoy watching them sing and dance. It's just so vibrant till u'll feel like dancing with them while watching them! (: Really, i'm not being bias just because they are my friends!

Just purchase V- Are Here for only RM23.90 and it also includes a DVD with Show Me Your Love's MV!

V, being interviewed by Nicholas from MyFm.

Us with our newly made "banner" with lights to support V!

Getting their signatures.

Michael Jackson - The King of Pop.

i really can't believe that Michael Jackson is dead. i mean, it's way too shocking for me.ironically, i heard the news from my students in the afternoon yesterday. yesterday morning, i was checking my hotmail account, and i know how sometimes the site will pop out some news...i saw MJ's pic there but i didn't read it, i thought it was some other scandals.then when i was driving to my tuition centre, i keep hearing MJ's old songs and the DJs were talking about him.i was a bit distracted so i didn't catch what they said about him.

until when my student told me about it, and it started to sink in while i was driving home. MJ. i grew up listening to his songs.since primary school.i can still remember my dad will bought his cassette.(there's no CD that time) songs like, Man In The Mirror, Beat It, Black or White, Heal The World, The Girl Is Mine, We are The World... i even listen to albums that were released before i was born. all of his songs since 1982.

Although in the recent years, there were some allegations of sexual child abuse against him and the fact that his appearance changes due to plastic surgery, and i felt a bit disgusted about the news of the sexual abuse...but i've to admit that i still love his songs. i'm too used to listening his songs, even till now.

i'm shocked beyond words.

MJ, though u're no longer phyically here, but ur songs will always remain with all of us. ur voice had touched people. including myself.

V - Press Conference.

finally, after hearing V's song - Show Me Your Love on myfm (101.8) for several weeks, V's EP titled V are here is finally released on the 22nd June 2009. Their conference was held at Summit USJ and close friends, families and the press are invited.

V stands for Vampire.the reason why this name was chosen, is because they want to change public's perception towards people that choose dancing as a career. public usually perceive that dancers are akin to hoodlums/samseng etc. in simpler terms..."pai kia" larh...same as public's perception that vampires are BAD. but the fact is that not all vampires are bad! (an example...from twilight series..hehehee) same as being a dancer, does not necesarrily that they are bad.

although this is my first time attending this type of press conference, and i have no freaking idea how a press conference are actually like..i feel that V's show was amazing. it's very creative, bearing in mind that the decorations were done by V themselves, helped by their Tren Crew.

their show started off with all the lights off, then some background music were played, followed by a group of ppl dressed in all black, carrying a candle. then the background dancers make their appearance.few seconds later...V emerged from their own individual coffins. i have to say, i was surprise to see them using a coffin (a western style coffin though).i mean, u know..usually chinese are quite pantang about this kind of thing.

they started off with the song titled 暴风雪, followed by Show Me Your Love. Both songs were awesome and their dance moves are great! i have to say that it's definitely worth buying their EP, which only cost RM23.90, their songs are suitable for youths. If you like their songs, do purchase their EP and spread the news about this hot new band in Malaysia! (:

V

that group above is called "V". it's the newest band that not only sings, but dances as well.

i 1st heard this song when toro&jack (both of the guys in the MV) gave me and my friends a CD that contain this particular song.i can barely recognise jack's voice (anyways, he's known as shin now) i mean, we went for karaoke session for numerous times quite some time ago, and we all can recognise his voice...but, i guess that's what "remixing" can do to one's voice...well, at least other songs i can recognise his voice.

the 2nd time i heard their song is in my.fm. i can barely believe it, my friends are ON AIR!

and just few hours ago, i finally manage to view their MV. i have to say..im so PROUD OF THEM! after all the efforts they had put, their EP will be out on the 22nd June 2009!

whoever is reading this, do support them if u like them and spread the news around! (:

Finally.

FINALLY, EXAMS ARE OVER! wow...after almost one month of exams, i can finally just sit back at home and just DO NOTHING! i can actually go to bed by 12, and wake up at 9am... *blissss* although it was almost one week since my exams are over, i can still remember what it was like, facing my final and most difficult paper-IP.

one day before my IP paper, i was still trying to memorised as much cases, facts etc etc as possible. the fear of not being able to produce it during my exam was overwhelming me. until night came, i still cant seem to memorise everything. when i tried to sleep, i keep waking up in the middle of my sleep, i keep dreaming of the same case. -- L'Oreal v Bellure. my sleep was interrupted by this case...until 5am, i just cant fall asleep back, so i get up and try to read my notes again.

it didnt work out well, i just cant seem to digest anything...so i decided to head to the exam centre a bit earlier than usual, i know it's not a very good move cos the paper before me--Conflicts of Law, will be finishing their paper at that time..and most of them, that will be their final paper.so basically i went earlier to "celebrate" their happiness of finishing their final paper, while i'll still have another 3hours 15mins of pain to endure. *sigh*

thank God mr.suaran decided to come over to give us some motivation and to calm us down before our exam.he's the BEST LECTURER i ever had.the effort he put into all of us...is way beyond any full time lecturer ever did. one of the reasons that many of us put most of our effort in IP, is not only because it's difficult, but we also want to make him proud of us.

during exams, when i was desperately trying to figure out the issues and the cases, i'll just think of mr.suaran, the way he taught us in class...somehow it manage to calm me down. although exams are over, there were some times when i'm sitting alone at home, trying to think back about my exams, especially IP, i know i didn't do my best. i just know it. i can't remember some cases and some facts. sigh.... all i can do now, is just try my best to not make it spoil my 3 months break.when the time comes...i'll know.

I'm SCARED!

finally, tomorrow will be my FINAL PAPER for my whole degree programme. 2pm-IP Paper. *gancheong* amongst all my subject, i've to say that IP is the one i enjoyed most..but it's also the bulkiest among my other subjects.though i love this subject, somehow i dont really have the confidence in doing this paper...there are just too many cases to remember, facts...decisions and reasonings. not only that, the fact that our lecturer mr.suaran had put so much effort in us, made me even more scared. i really want to make him proud with our results, somehow what i hope doesnt reconcile with what im feeling now---im scared of taking that paper. scared...scared...