F**KOR -- F**KEE

i was kinda inspired by Wendy's blog..so i decided to blog something that i learn in Jurisprudence class for the past few weeks. and throughout the course of Juris, i think the only topic that really attracts me, or i actually understood is on Feminism. 

one of the most notable feminist is Catherine Mackinnon.the one that made almost the whole class stunned. 

ok, all this while...i think almost everyone knows how female status in the society, is somewhat lower than male.despite all the awareness that feminist created..somehow, we were discriminated on sexuality grounds. but sometimes ppl may be ignorant to what extent we were discrimanated on those ground. 

Catherine MacKinnon drew an analogy about male-female relationships using almost everything, even when male and female are in the bed room.

u know how sometimes the term "....or" and "....ee" were used. example mortgagor and mortgagee, lessor and lessee, coventor and covantee. usually the "...or" are left with a better position and that usually positive actions are required from him. 

same comes to male and female when they are having sex:

F***OR   -   F***EE 

it's like at the end of the day, we female always come out worst in a bargain. 

Joke of the Week.

on a hot wednesday afternoon, after lunch...the students all went back into their class,on the 4th floor.settling down...taking out all their pens,papers etc..chatting away whilst waiting for their lecturer to enter the class. 

the lecturer enter the class at 2pm..on time as usual and started jotting down some notes on the whiteboard.so all them started copying.since this lecturer's writings are kind of small, students from the 3rd roll have to start squinting to decipher the lecturer's writing. 

there is this 2 students (girls), sitting at the 4th roll were chatting softly while copying down.

student A : "ei wat's that word ar? desert or dessert?" (pointing towards the white board)

student B : "it's d-e-s-e-r-t but pronounced as dessert lar" 

student A : oh.ok.so weird one.by the way, dessert is the sweet thingy and desert is the one the camel right? 

student B : duhhh 

since the class was so boring, student A started chanting to student B:

student A : i'm a camel..i'm a camel...i'm a camel

student B : u also dont have humps, how to be a camel leh...

student A : who says i dont have humps??!! there! (pointing at her chest and puff up her chest.) 

 

Ice Skating.

today, i went ice-skating with my sister. and... i dont think many of my friends know that i ice-skate. cos i never been ice skating with my college or secondary school friends, except -- Daniel Wong, who is a great skater himself...

and the ice-hockey skates above is mine.and the last time i wore it, was like almost 4 freaking years ago! yes...i havent ice skate for about 4 years. 

i pick up ice skating when i was 13.both me and my sister really,really love skating.she bought her  hockey skates when she was 14, and about a year later i bought mine. yea..we were still in secondary school, yet somehow we manage to find time to skate, usually on weekday nights. 

i can still remember quite clearly who were the other bunch of ice hockey skaters. for about 2 years when we went regularly, the same group were there, and at the same time, newcomers joined the group too (like us) 

but, today...once we stepped into the rink (i must admit that i was a bit afraid, since it has been ages since i last skate) i realised that ice hockey skaters now, are much much younger.i never seen them before.and im sure they will be wondering where me and my sister are from. seeing those new ppl, i know that life just goes on. 

thank God i didnt fall the moment i stepped in.once i was into...the old feeling came. it's like...everything is about ur balance.and until that time, i realised how much i missed that feeling. 

later when they were resurfacing the ice, we met this woman -- Alice . Amazing woman. she's a figure skater, and when i 1st glance at her...i thought she's in her mid 50s...but...she's actually already 70! yet she's still in the ice rink, skating as though age and time never take place,and  few years back, she suffered injuries on her leg and wrist, undergo operation...though she can't coach anymore, she still continue skate. she said..."once u have the balance and u can skate, u'll never not know how to skate, though u stop for years..." 

i was really impressed. i hope when i'm 70, i'll have the same determination as her. 

ok, the bad thing that happened to me today (despite me feeling so energetic and feeling nostalgic)  *sigh* sth horrible happened to my left toe.

the main thing is not my beautiful nail art, but the saggy thing at the side of my toe. see?! shiiiiit. it's some "sui pao" thing. UGHHHHH!! 

18.02.09

yesterday night, me and my friends decided to go to Genting. it has been ages since we had such sudden decision to go there. anyways, we leave our area about 9 sth and reached there about 10. 

Hong is in the mood for bowling, so we went to First World for bowling session. 

and...i had the highest score! hehee... 

after that we went to OldTown.*sigh*no matter where we go, we ended up in OldTown. 

PekLi, Winnie, AhTat. 

after yamcha, we took lotsss of pics. although we were there for only 2-3 hours,yet...all of them manage to take about 70 ++ pictures! 

YewWey, PekLi,me,Winnie. 

KokHong,YewWey,PekLi,Winnie,AhTat.

we left Genting about 2am.i was like sooo tired once i reached home. but, i am really happy that somehow we still manage to had small trips here and there.  (: 

14.02.09.

it's Valentine's Day AGAIN. *sigh* it's not that i'm very anti-Valentine's day or anything, but sometimes it just kind of irk me to see those Valentines day decorations and all the shops, cafes are going overboard. welll...maybe it's because i dont have someone special to celebrate larh. hell.whatever...

initially i had some planning with some of my single friends from college, and i ended up being FFK by one of them. well, a bloody long story that totally MADE my Valentine's Day, and the day just started for me.i was like..what the HELL... 

anyways, somehow...later, some of my other single friends decided to have some drinking session (well, more like i decided to drink) so jan,wey and hong came over to my place.

Our Valentine's presents from Hong. LOL.

the drinking begins.....

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Jan, pretending to be emo or really emo?

that's not me. LOL. 

Hong.

both of them were high edi.

i think he's the only guy friend that can piggyback me...

well, though it's not a very grand way of celebrating Vday, but...im glad we manage to call each other out, cos...some of us ended up getting real emo (whatever happens that night, is to be remained only during that night...) and i'm glad that we're able to be there for each other and comfort each other. 

thanks guys, for being there for me too! (: 

Bye, Alex !

after listening to alex saying about Ttdi plaza for a dozen of times, finally he brought us there just now. it's my 1st time there, and i kinda like that place. it has cheap beer. only rm35++ for a bucket of beer. (: 

well, the reason we went there just now is sort of like a mini farewell for alex.he's going back to Australia on Saturday. *sigh* though he was back for more than a month, he barely hang out with us.that asshole is sooooooo busy with his new life and new girlfriend. well, at least this time he asked us out, before leaving. 

playing chor dai di.

winnie jie.

tian aka karena, so serious! 

as usual, on the phone again...

valentine's day just around the corner, yet her "heart" is broken...

well, all i can say now..take care ya alex tang chee peng! (: 

Quattro - Autumn

it has been quite some time that Quattro is open, yet i don't really have the chance to go there till last night. before this, i heard many,many comments about Quattro. some said it's not that good, some said the music rocks. but one thing in common..is that Quattro ain't cheap. 

anyways, i reached Quattro few mintues after 11pm, so my reservation was taken out. but we paid for 2 bottles edi, so no matter what i must get a bloody table. thank God the waiter Angel is soo nice and get us tables though it was so packed. our tables were upstairs. 

View from the top. 

My favourite- BlackLabel. 

No idea wat is this.

Me and Jan babe.

My sis-Lingwei, Cousin Alvin and me.

Us girls. 

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Cousin's friends. 

I've to agree with Tian that the music rocks. It's really good and you can just dance all night long. And i can understand why Tian prefers Quattro over Poppy, cos it's NOT HOT at all in Quattro, whilst in Poppy u'll sweat all night long.

basically, me and my friends had lots of fun, im not so sure about my cousin and his friends lar..we didnt talk much.but..when it came to almost the end, two of my cousin's friends were so drunk, so we need to go out...and..

they're sharing a bucket to puke! yuckkss. teik loon claims that they drink so much is to avoid us girls from drinking so much! shiiit, he doesnt know the Queens of Liquor -Jan and Wey.

At least this guy is still sober. 

He can't walk at all. Kesian my sis, need to carry him... 

Jan..u're caught! *laughsss* 

Bottom line is, i'll definitely come here again! 

What Will Happen Next?

sometimes it's really really hard, to have something,a feeling of almost like loathing stored inside you, yet you can't vent it out to the person that's causing it. 

it's equally hard as well, to not be able to warn a friend, about something that's so NOT right that's happening to them YET she/he don't realised it. 

it's horrible that a friend changed drastically. changes can sometimes be adaptable, but if that person change into someone that you had once listed as "no-way-we-will ever-be-friends", what will happen next? 

for the past few days, those were what i was feeling. it made me frustrated and kind of pissed. yet i have to control myself from saying or doing anything, for any such actions will have terrible consequences.consequences that i don't think i can handle.

yet i am afraid.afraid that sooner or later, the limits will be crossed. and i'll lose control. 

CNY 2009

This year's Chinese New Year, I discovered...

Shin Ee/Jan: One-Lap Queen. We just play for about 2 hours and she had 5-6 times of one-lap!

Yew Wey: Not only she has many dears, but "Yerss" as well.

Sok Teng: The most steady one, when we played one-lap.her facial expression doesnt change much!

Pek Li: Is still frightened of dogs! she's scream whenever Didi,Momo or Bebe came near here.

Tuan Chin: 80% of the photos taken with her were with the "Peace" sign.

Winnie: Refused to have any Bak Kua at all! Not even one during this CNY!